Saving your relationship can be a difficult task. There are more than one worries that might hit you. The worry of making a wrong move and losing the person forever is one of them.

Unfortunately, doing what feels right, may actually be the worst thing to do. More often than not, taking the “counter intuitive path” is the way to go. Sometimes we want to pour our hearts out and say what we feel… But the best thing to do is wait. And similar with wanting to call… most of the time it’s best not to!

As a warning, the techniques you’re about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look an feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.

Counterintuitive Technique #1

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you’re able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The reason you want to keep a distance is because they need time to miss and respect you. They are likely mad or upset that you are constantly on their back trying to get back together with them.

Counter intuitive Technique #2

The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You’re probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.

By simply not saying a word or make any contact you allow your ex a few moments to really miss your contact and might start to second guess their actions. This space of time will help you think clearly and is good for your internal health. It also gets your ready for the next technique.